Monday, September 8, 2008

A Matter of Balance


Are you the Queen of Multi-Tasking or the Princess of Overextended and Burnt Out?

Life happens! Take a lesson from our beloved Themis -- the scale is rarely perfectly balanced, you have to look at both sides and adjust. When one side comes up, the other goes down.

Tips & Tricks
  • Make a list -- It is often not near as bad on paper as it all is rattling around in you head.

  • Take 5 - When you can't get going and life seems overwhelming, talk yourself into "5." Tackle 5 small things you know you need to do or spend 5 minutes doing a chore. It will either jump start you and you will keep going or at the minimum, something gets done.

  • Accept a sisterly hand - We have all been there or will be, let someone help. Accept if offered and ask if needed.

  • Don't reinvent the wheel - Reuse, recycle when you can.

  • Forget perfect - really! Not only do you waste time obsessing over getting things "just right" studies actually show you cause yourself a lot more stress.

  • Have boundaries - Find the things important to you - Sunday dinners with your family, tucking your kids into bed, Thursday happy hours with your girlfriends... protect those things fiercely!

  • Communicate - When people know this is a rough week/month/few months in your life, they are much more understanding if you aren't always at 100%.

  • Lean when you can say "no." Prioritize and stay flexible.

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